What happens when trans folks die

CW: Death, suicide

I saw Gemma Stone write a piece on this for a writing competition. I won’t link it, partly because I’m taking this in a different direction to the way she was talking about transphobia, the way people sneer over dead trannies and enjoy for themselves the way administrative bureacracies compound the usual humiliations of lives extinguished with registering us incorrectly as male or female according to the needs of the state rather than according to the reality of our lives.